Promiscuity is a bad thing. Until it isn't. And then it is again. Is it possible to sleep around without judgement, shame or hurt feelings? I certainly think so. Let's find out how.

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The number one thing men fear on dating apps is that the girl will be overweight. The number one thing women fear is dying. Casual relationships have a stigma - that they're unsafe or unhealthy. That doesn't have to be the case. Here's some ground rules to help.