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Plausible Deniability

A concept in social dynamics that liars use to cover up their deceit – and how to spot it.

Pre – Suppositions

How our sentence composition creates implicit & sneaky assumptions we can use to steer conversations.

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8 Steps for Handling Conflict Resolution and Emotions in Healthy Relationships

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March 21, 2025

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Cain Parish

Evidence-based strategies for managing conflict and emotions in relationships that turn disagreements into opportunities for deeper intimacy between partners.

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November 7, 2024

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Cain Parish

Selective synonymy is the process by which we select and use one word over another. Learn about how context and connotation inform our language.

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November 1, 2024

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Cain Parish

A comprehensive breakdown of typical stages in romantic relationship development.

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September 17, 2024

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Cain Parish

Attitudes towards a relationship can inform success, failure and the lived experience of all involved.

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September 7, 2024

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Cain Parish

Being attractive is about inspiring interest – knowing how to act in an appreciable way towards your partner.

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September 2, 2024

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Cain Parish

Presuppositions – a technique to subtly frame conversations by embedding implicit assumptions, allowing people to influence and persuade.

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July 12, 2024

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Cain Parish

For some – genuine social relationships can be confusing. Here’s how to understand and develop platonic friendships.

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July 12, 2024

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Cain Parish

This guide will examine the intricacies of human interaction, offering knowledge that can positively impact your personal and professional relationships.

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July 12, 2024

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Cain Parish

Influence psychology explains why certain individuals possess a natural ability to persuade others. This is the powerful force that shapes our daily interactions and decision-making processes.

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July 8, 2024

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Cain Parish

The act of listening that enhances communication and relationships through active conversational participation.

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May 5, 2024

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Cain Parish

Insecurity can hamper your relationships by injecting a degree of uncertainty into your dealings with others. Learn how to deal with it.

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May 5, 2024

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Cain Parish

A common question from those suffering heartbreak is always ‘How do I move on after a breakup?’. This is a jumping-off point.

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April 19, 2024

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Cain Parish

Push pull communication – a communication technique that alternates between emotional warmth and detachment, often used for influence and attraction.

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April 9, 2024

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Cain Parish

Power dynamics exist in all relationships. Learn about your psychological self-defense and prevent them from being abused around you.

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April 4, 2024

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Cain Parish

Learn how to cold approach – initiating conversations with complete strangers.

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April 3, 2024

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Cain Parish

Successfully dating with trauma requires self-awareness, emotional regulation, and proactive healing rather than relying on a partner to fix past wounds.

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March 24, 2024

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Cain Parish

Dating requires adaptability, not rigid strategies – learn to find success from reading and responding to unique interpersonal dynamics.

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February 16, 2024

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Cain Parish

Escaping the grip of dating apps revealed that real attraction isn’t measured by algorithms but by genuine human connection.

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November 16, 2023

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Cain Parish

Goal-oriented thinking is a mental framework designed to simplify decision-making by working backward from a desired outcome.

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November 9, 2023

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Cain Parish

Learn how the ‘friend zone’ is constructed as a mental model and what to do if you’re inside it.

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November 8, 2023

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Cain Parish

How Tinder and similar dating apps manipulate user engagement by exploiting self-esteem and gamifying your attraction.

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November 2, 2023

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Cain Parish

What is the relationship anarchy smorgasbord? A concise method for picking what you want for your relationships.

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November 1, 2023

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Cain Parish

Listening is more than just hearing the words spoken by someone. It’s about understanding and interpretation.

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October 31, 2023

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Cain Parish

Flirting is a blend of confidence, communication, and social awareness, allowing individuals to express attraction while gauging interest in a playful and engaging way. Learn how to flirt.

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October 30, 2023

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Cain Parish

Diagnose issues in speaking the language of your partner.

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October 24, 2023

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Cain Parish

Learn what factors are involved in the impression made by how you choose to dress – on dates and otherwise.

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October 6, 2023

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Cain Parish

Clinginess in relationships is often a response to insecurity or past trauma, manifesting as a need for constant reassurance.

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September 22, 2023

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Cain Parish

Rejection activates emotional pain responses tied to past experiences. Here’s what to do with that.

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September 21, 2023

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Cain Parish

Use situational awareness and smart thinking to work out the best date ideas for you and the person you’re looking to meet.

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September 17, 2023

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Cain Parish

Learn about passive aggression – an indirect way of expressing hostility and negative sentiment.

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September 14, 2023

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Cain Parish

How concern for men’s attitudes and mental health can be a topic worth discussing.

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September 6, 2023

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Cain Parish

Mental health improvements don’t offer instant fixes but rather, create the foundation for sustainable progress.

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September 1, 2023

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Cain Parish

Multiple relationships can coexist while balancing emotional complexity and situational nuance. Here’s how.

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August 31, 2023

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Cain Parish

Successful relationships are built when both partners prioritise giving and collaboration over selfish desires.

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August 30, 2023

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Cain Parish

Developing and refining intuition allows for quicker, more confident decision-making.

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August 28, 2023

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Cain Parish

Unexamined impulses, rooted in past defense mechanisms, can lead to self-sabotage.

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August 27, 2023

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Cain Parish

Assertiveness is a skill you don’t need all the time, but is mandatory to have in your toolbelt.

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August 21, 2023

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Cain Parish

Relationship anarchy prioritises personal autonomy and fluid boundaries, enabling partners to define their relationships freely while emphasising communication, consent and comfort of all involved.

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August 18, 2023

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Cain Parish

Building a strong foundation through emotional connection, communication, and aligned values is important. How long does that take?

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August 17, 2023

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Cain Parish

Communication in relationships is not just about speaking but about ensuring clarity, emotional safety, and constructive dialogue

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August 16, 2023

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Cain Parish

Thoughtful compliments work best when they acknowledge a date’s unique qualities in a timely and relevant manner.

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August 15, 2023

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Cain Parish

Navigating different love languages in a relationship involves recognising your partner’s preferences and learning to express love in ways they value.

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July 19, 2023

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Cain Parish

This is my evergreen statement – a general stance and philosophy towards my relationships that I hope carries into the rest of my life.

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June 28, 2023

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Cain Parish

Ethical promiscuity is not about the number of partners but about intentionality, responsibility, and mutual respect.

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December 13, 2022

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Cain Parish

Understanding your relationship patterns requires re-parenting yourself and ensuring your choices stem from self-awareness.

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November 8, 2022

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Cain Parish

A breakup should be intentional, well-planned, and handled with emotional clarity to minimize harm and facilitate closure.

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November 5, 2022

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Cain Parish

The business of self-improvement has turned personal growth into a commodity, prioritising profit over real transformation.

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November 4, 2022

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Cain Parish

Casual dating is about balancing excitement with precaution, ensuring safety without sacrificing fun.

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November 3, 2022

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Cain Parish

Defining a relationship requires direct communication – waiting for clarity without asking ensures frustration.

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November 2, 2022

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Cain Parish

Physical compatibility is a crucial factor in relationships, and testing it early can prevent emotional investment in a bad match.

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October 31, 2022

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Cain Parish

Seeking dating advice online often reinforces harmful biases instead of encouraging meaningful self-growth.

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March 18, 2022

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Cain Parish

Define your values intentionally and strive toward them, using self-awareness as a guide for growth rather than a source of regret.

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March 10, 2022

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Cain Parish

Plausible deniability allows manipulators to avoid accountability by subtly directing conversations – learning to recognise and confront this tactic is the best defense.

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